Be Kind, Silence Your Cell Phones and Pagers
How hard is it to set a pager or cell phone to vibrate?!? For the past six years, I have had a cell phone, and I’ve known how to set each one to vibrate. When I carried a pager for work, I knew how to set it to vibrate.
If ever I did not know how to set something to vibrate, I sought out someone who did know and made them show me.
As far as I’m concerned, it’s a simple matter of respect. Yes, there are times when you need to keep your pager on (notice I haven’t even talked about turning the thing off, just setting it to vibrate) during meetings, and that’s precisely what vibrate is for. Personally, I even leave my cell phone on vibrate most of the time because I still know when the phone rings, but I don’t have to disturb everyone around me. A brilliant strategy, I know. Yes, I do want a brownie badge and kudos from everyone reading this.
I went to a meeting today and during the four hours we had multiple interruptions due to pager rings and cell phones. This would have been bad enough, considering these are intelligent people who work in health care, but several times the person whose pager/phone was ringing was apparently oblivious to the ring. How is that possible?!? Everyone hears this high pitched ringing and starts looking around, and the owner of the pager doesn’t hear it. In fact, over time I’ve learned it is always the one person not looking around. Somehow they are the only person oblivious to the ringing, which is meant to alert them in the first place. If you have trouble hearing your pager or cell phone, isn’t that even more argument for putting it on vibrate?!
I at least am less frustrated by people who are obviously surprised they forgot to turn it off or put it on vibrate. These people are considerate, but they made a mistake. That is forgivable. These are the people who immediately grab their phone/pager, dip their head and make an “I’m so sorry and embarrassed” expression and run out of the room or silence the phone/pager. That’s the other thing, if your phone or pager does accidentally go off in public there is always a quick way to shut it up. I know exactly where to push to silence my phone. If I need to take the call, I’ll silence it immediately and scoot out of the room. Today one woman’s phone rang three separate times, each time she did the get-out-of-the-room-100-meter-dash but did not silence the ring any of these times. To compound the problem she ran out through an enclosed hallway which functioned as an echo chamber. So we all hear her ring, and then it gets louder as she runs out of the room. Sweet. I can’t chalk this up to a mistake either, because it happened several times. She was well aware her phone was set to the “Loudest Ring Possible…make sure to run into an amplifying echo chamber when it rings” setting.
Argh. And these are “professionals.”